🌟7 Ways to Self Care Every Weekend🌟

🌟7 Ways to Self Care Every Weekend🌟

How many of us eagerly await the weekend, anticipating some well-deserved rest? We envision lazy mornings and peaceful afternoons, only to discover that the reality is quite different. The to-do list is relentless, the kids are up with the sun, and there are sports games and birthday parties to attend. If you're a man, you often find yourself faced with a honey-do list and the endless yard to tend to, not to mention family responsibilities that never take a break.

Mom at a table with a lap top, holding her head like she has a headache and her daughter is sitting next to her with toys all over the table.

Regardless of your role in your household, it sometimes feels like time slips through your fingers, and the idea of a restful weekend seems to slip away with it.

But my dear friend, here's the truth: amidst the chaos of weekend obligations, there's an opportunity for something precious. It's a chance to redefine what "rest" means in your life. It's about recognizing that rest doesn't always have to be a full day of lounging; it can also be found in the moments in between.

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Consider those stolen minutes when you sip your morning coffee in solitude, watching the sunrise. Think about the joy on your children's faces as they play in those sports games or celebrate at those birthday parties. Reflect on the satisfaction of completing tasks on your honey-do list and the sense of accomplishment that comes with a well-maintained yard.

Rest, my friend, can be found in the small victories, the shared laughter, and the moments of connection. It's about embracing the ebb and flow of life and understanding that rest is not always a destination; it's a state of mind.

So, as you navigate the whirlwind of weekend activities, remember that you have the power to infuse each moment with a sense of restfulness. It's not about the quantity of rest but the quality of the moments you create. Find rest in the midst of chaos, and you'll discover a new level of contentment and empowerment in your weekend journey.

In the end, it's not about waiting for the perfect weekend; it's about making each weekend perfect in its own unique way. 🌟


I wanted to take the time to help you  embrace the art of self-care and wellness to nurture your inner gardens. Your weekends are a precious time for rejuvenation and self-discovery.  let's dive into 7 easy and powerful ways to make the most of them.

🌿✨7 Ways to Self Care Every Weekend🌿✨

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1. Morning Mindfulness Moments 🌅

Each morning, before I even step out of bed, I start my beautiful journey within myself. It's a sacred ritual that reminds me of the precious gift of life. I start by wiggling my toes and fingers, acknowledging  the sensation of being alive. In that moment, a genuine smile spreads across my face. It's amazing how something so simple can set the tone for the day ahead. It's a quiet affirmation of self-care.

As I rise from bed, I go through the motions of my daily hygiene tasks. But it's in the shower that I truly connect with the power of mindfulness. I visualize the water cascading over me, a cleansing cascade that washes away the negative energy I might have picked up throughout the week. Worries and anxieties melt away, leaving room for clarity. 

As I lather up with my favorite honey and turmeric soap, I utter words of affirmation. "I put on joy, prosperity, love, charity, peace..." These words become my armor, my shield against negativity. And when the water embraces me, it's as if the universe itself is granting me these affirmations.

Once I'm dressed and ready to face the world, I head down the stairs to greet my thriving family of over 70 plants. Their vibrant presence reminds me of the beauty and resilience of life. Lighting incense is my way of inviting calm and stillness into my space. The fragrance that fills the air transports me to a place of inner peace.

Before diving into the bustling world outside, I take a moment to brew a cup of tea, and, I sit down with my journal. It's a sacred dialogue with myself and The Most High, a canvas where I paint my thoughts, dreams, and intentions.

For those with little ones, I know that mornings can be a whirlwind. But consider inviting them to join in this morning mindfulness ritual. In today's fast-paced world, our children can benefit greatly from the gentle art of mindfulness. Their journey towards self-discovery begins with us.

Recommendation for Mindfulness

Begin your weekend with a gentle awakening. As you open your eyes, take a few minutes to focus on your breath. Inhale serenity, exhale stress. This simple practice sets a calm tone for the day ahead and helps you stay present.

2. Nature's Embrace 🌳

You know, sometimes I'm so busy running my business that I forget about the amazing world outside. My desk is right in front of a window, and outside it's like a little piece of nature heaven. There are trees, birds, squirrels, and sometimes even a deer!

But you know what? Just looking at nature from my window isn't the same as really being a part of it. Sometimes, when I need a break and to relax, I step outside. It's amazing how taking a simple walk or having lunch outside can make everything feel better.

Especially on the weekends, we all need a dose of nature. What if you and your family - the kids, the dog, and your husband - got up early and took a walk before breakfast? Or, you could find a moment to sit on your porch or in your backyard. Just take a little time to watch everything around you, the stuff we often forget about.

Nature has a way of making us feel connected and calm. So, don't forget to step outside and enjoy it. It's like a little adventure waiting for you right outside your door!

Recommendation for Nature's Embrace

Connect with the healing power of nature. Whether it's a walk in the park, a hike in the woods, or simply sitting in your garden, let the natural world soothe your soul. Nature reminds us of our place in the universe and our connection to something greater.

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3. Unplug and Recharge 📵

Technology, oh, what a double-edged sword it can be. I've found myself wrestling with it, especially in when it comes to  social media. I've never been one to be glued to my phone, and this struggle is real. But let me share with you a little something I've been doing to find that elusive balance.

During the week, when the clock strikes 5 pm, I make a conscious decision. I turn my phone off and leave it in another room. It's like shedding a weight I didn't even realize I was carrying. The moment I disconnect from that digital world, it's as if a dark cloud lifts, and I can breathe a little easier.

Another change I made was banishing my phone from my bedroom at bedtime. You see, these devices emit all sorts of frequencies that mess with our sleep patterns. By bidding my phone farewell before I sleep, I've welcomed better, more restful slumber into my life.

Now, here's a challenge for you: this weekend, consider doing a little digital detox. Turn off your phone for a bit and see how it makes you feel. Switch off the TV for half of the day and rediscover the joys of quality time with your family. Play games, share laughter, or perhaps finally crack open that book you bought but never got around to reading.

It's in these moments of digital silence that we often discover a different kind of richness, a deeper connection with the world around us and the people we love. Give it a try, my friend, and you might just find that the true beauty of life lies beyond the screen.

Recommendation to Unplug and Recharge

Give your screens a break. Dedicate some time to unplug from the digital world. Read a book, try your hand at a new hobby, or engage in deep, meaningful conversations with loved ones. This break from the constant stream of information is like a breath of fresh air for your mind.

Young lady smiling at herself, in a heart shape mirror and writing " I love me" on the mirror with red lipstick

4. Self-Reflection Session 📝

Let me tell you, reflecting on myself has been an absolute game-changer in my life. It's like receiving an extraordinary gift that keeps on giving. The ability to gaze deep into your soul and truly see who you are is nothing short of miraculous. When you can stand in front of your own mirror, acknowledge both the light and the shadows within, it alters your entire perspective on life and the people around you.

It's crucial to carve out moments to sit quietly with yourself, to ask those questions that your spirit has been longing to answer. In this realm of existence, our purpose is to ascend to higher levels of understanding, and that journey begins with self-exploration.

Now, don't let me fool you; it's not a walk in the park. Self-reflection is a profound, ongoing journey. It's not something you achieve overnight; it's a lifelong commitment. But let me assure you, every moment spent in contemplation is a step toward uncovering your true self.

Make it a priority to set aside precious time for yourself, my friend. Get to know the depths of your being, the dreams that stir within your soul, and the truths that have been waiting to emerge. This journey of self-discovery is a path to the most authentic version of you.

Recommendation for Self Reflecting

Take out your journal and reflect on your week. What went well? What challenged you? How did you feel about being challenged? Why did you feel the feelings you felt? Also, set intentions for the upcoming week. This practice of self-reflection provides clarity and empowers you to make positive changes.

Close up picture of people cooking in a kitchen, you can only see the hands working the pots and pans over the stove.

5. Nourish Your Body 🍏

You know, it's easy to get caught up in nourishing our minds and spirits while neglecting the vessel that carries them—our bodies. Sometimes, I find myself in the same boat. But there's a delightful way my husband and I keep the spark alive while caring for our bodies—cooking competitions.

Picture this: my husband and I challenge each other to find and cook a healthy meal for dinner. It becomes a thrilling duel of culinary creativity. We take turns deciding who's the winner based on the deliciousness and healthiness of the recipe. One month, we ventured into the world of soups off of Pinterest, thinking it would be a breeze. Well, let me tell you, there are more unhealthy soups out there than you'd imagine! It became a healthy soup showdown.

Now, here's a little weekend idea for you, my friend. Pick out a new dessert recipe or a fresh meal idea and get your family or friends involved. Turn it into a joyful cooking adventure, a chance to unwind, and share some hearty laughter. And you know what? Leave those dishes for tomorrow; the memories you create are far more important than the mess.

 Recommendation for Self Reflecting

Fuel your body with love. Cook a wholesome meal or treat yourself to your favorite healthy snacks. Remember, self-care includes nourishing your physical vessel. Your body deserves the best.

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6. Creative Expression 🎨

I'll be honest with you, there are times when my creativity flows like a river, and those times often coincide with bouts of depression. Yes, I experience those too. They arrive in cycles, and some cycles are tougher than others to weather. During my low moments, when the weight of depression holds me down, I'm filled with creative ideas. My mind becomes a canvas of imagination, even though I lack the energy to bring these ideas to life.

It's when the cycle finally releases its grip on me that I go into a frenzy of creation. I bring to life all those ideas that had been brewing in the shadows of my mind. It's like a burst of energy, akin to taking a shot of Vitamin B. The act of creating becomes therapeutic, a lifeline in the midst of my emotional turbulence.

But you see, I've also found a sanctuary, Artistic Fusion a place I can escape to occasionally. There's an art studio not too far from where I am, and it's become my haven. There, I can channel and release the pent-up negative energy that depression brings. The act of creating art becomes a catharsis, a way to untangle the web of emotions that can be overwhelming.

And you know what's beautiful? This outlet has had a profound impact on my journey through depression. It's not that the cycles have disappeared, but they've become more manageable, less formidable. It's as though I've found a bridge to navigate the turbulent waters.

So, if you ever find yourself in a similar dance with creativity and depression, consider seeking your own sanctuary. It might be an art studio, a garden, or any space where you can give life to your emotions. In these moments of creation, you may find solace and a path toward healing, just as I have.


 Recommendation for Creative Expression

Tap into your inner artist. Whether it's painting, writing, or dancing, express yourself creatively. Creativity is a gateway to self-discovery, allowing your innermost thoughts and feelings to surface.

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7. Serene Evening Ritual 🕯️

In the hustle and bustle of life, it's easy to forget the importance of a soothing nighttime routine. Yet, it's a gift we can give to our mind, body, and spirit, ensuring a tranquil and restful night's sleep.

Start with a simple ritual, like brewing a cup of tea. Allow its warmth to cradle you, easing away the stresses of the day. It's a moment to claim as your own, a time to gently remind your family that this sacred hour belongs to you. If need be, tuck the kids and your husband into bed and savor the quiet solitude that follows.

Now, picture this: a hot bath infused with fragrant bath salts and soothing herbs. Soft music in the background, like a gentle lullaby for your soul. Let the warm water wash away the day's burdens, melting tension from your muscles. This is your time to pamper yourself, to replenish your well-being so that you can rise as your best self in the morning.

But before you slip beneath the covers and cradle your head on the pillow, take a moment. Reflect on the day that's fading away. Find gratitude in your heart for all the moments, big and small, that transpired. This practice of gratitude is like a gentle lullaby for your spirit, soothing your soul into a peaceful slumber.

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🌟I urge you to take these steps, and watch as your weekends become a sanctuary of self-care and empowerment. You deserve it! 🌟

🌟Have a wonderful Weekend My Friends!🌟


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